Celebrate Your Relationship
If you are spending time looking for ways in
which you can improve your relationship, you obviously
love and care for your partner and what you want
to have together.
Start your changes by celebrating your relationship.
Celebrate the joy of having met that one very
special person, find joy in the wonderful things
that 'click' about you and your spouse and celebrate
what you are committed to building together. You
can celebrate any day at any time and you can
also celebrate by surprising your spouse.
On your next birthday, celebrate your spouse
and how he or she makes your existence better
by presenting him or her with a gift. He or she
will be so surprised that you might see a tear
or two of joy fall.
Start paying attention to what he or she likes.
Really listen to what your spouse says, pay attention
to the items he or she says he would like to try
someday and get it for them. Don't give it to
your spouse immediately and put the item away
for a period of time. The period of time is up
to you- it could be a week or it could be a month.
When you think that he or she will no longer remember
discussing the item with you, present it to them
as a gift.
Take over a chore or daily task for your spouse
without letting them know about your intentions.
Mow the lawn, washing the car, cook and clean
up from meals or clean the house- do something
substantial for him or her. If you find that he
or she loved having the break from a particular
task, do it over and over again as often as you
can.
One of the most recognizable symbols of a celebration
is a balloon! Fill your car with balloons and
take them home to him or her. Fill the living
room before he or she gets home from work. Make
sure you have some balloons marked with your names
in hearts on them and some should have personal
messages written as well. Begin the celebration
of your love today.
Start celebrating each major and minor holiday
with your spouse. Begin with New Year's Eve and
do it big. Go to New York City and go to Times
Square if that's as big as you can think! Valentine's
Day should be done as lavishly as possible. On
the Fourth of July, plan to attend the most extravagant
fireworks display you can find or plan on making
fireworks of your own at home. Always celebrate
each other's birthdays and do it with flair. Your
Anniversary should be a special day and celebrated
with an expensive bottle of your favorite drink.
Get dressed up on Halloween as your favorite fantasy
characters and role-play for the entire evening.
Celebrate any and every day you want by staying
home from work and playing in bed. Celebrate as
often of infrequently as you want to, but make
sure you take the time to play, surprise each
other and celebrate your relationship.
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