Create the Perfect Atmosphere
Had you ever been
in the situation where your heart suddenly beats
so fast, losing your ability to think, having
the sudden loss for words when seeing someone
you admired? At that very moment, you were like
frozen in time, lost into another world, a world
so wonderful, so heavenly? Hmm… How is my description?
Ha whatever, the fact is that at that very moment,
you were totally defenseless. So defenseless that
anything could have just hit you. An arrow? An
arrow of love? Get what I mean?
Ok, let me share with you an experience of mine,
a memory of my college days. Those were the days
when we would always hang out in a big group,
a group of both guys and girls, partying and having
fun together. There was this fine evening that
we gathered at a friend’s place for a little party,
followed by some games of Black Jack during the
later evening. We were sited in one big circle
in this nice and cozy room. Sitting beside me
was this girl, a very beautiful girl I must admit.
But well, it had never cross my mind of a relationship
further than that of a friend with her. There
just wasn’t any chemistry between us. Then came
an ace for me! Before I realize anything, this
girl beside me suddenly just came in so close
on me. I know she was just been excited and curious
on whether I would get my Jack. But at this very
moment, her knee was on my lap, shoulder right
in front of my chest. We were suddenly just so
close; I could feel the beautiful fragrance from
her soft silky hair. My heart was suddenly pounding
so fast, gasping for breath. I was totally at
loss, for that very moment, she got me! That chemistry,
that frequency, which had never happened between
us suddenly just flowed through me so relentlessly.
Just imagine, if she were to give me a peck on
my cheek out of excitement if I got a Black Jack.
Ha well, that of course did not happen and neither
did I get my jack.
Get the picture now? This is a very natural human
psychological reaction. When one is in the stage
experiencing that sudden increase in the heartbeat,
undergoing a sudden feeling of excitement, he
tends to get confused, unknowingly developing
that feeling of liking for that someone beside
him, especially when the person is of the opposite
sex. An opposite sex of, whom he does not have
any bad impression. Not to mention an opposite
sex of whom he has a good impression of?
Ha! I know what is on your mind now. But well,
there is nothing wrong, why not? Go create that
perfect atmosphere; an atmosphere that would make
one’s heart beats faster. An atmosphere that would
make the sudden chemistry of love flowing between
both of you. A roller coaster ride? A haunted
house adventure? Having a good laugh together
after the rides? A little nice chatting session
over the coffee table after a game of his favorite
sports, tennis? Singing her a love song with your
guitar in front of everyone?
Think about it, you plan yours. Take it slowly;
build up that chemistry of love between both of
you. You are definitely on the right track.
Rick Valens Staff Writer for http://www.loveletterbox.com
, Love Relationship Discussion Forum