Dating Similarities - What Do You Have in Common?
What is it that
makes you attracted to someone? The look? The
character? The way he or she makes you laugh?
Well, that is a few possibilities. Now let me
ask you another question. What is it that you
feel that makes a couple go on a date together,
dates after dates? Think about it. Remember they
have a choice of saying no to a date. Very simple,
there is something of similar liking between the
both of them, something which both enjoy doing
together, over and over again.
Ask yourself this question, would you go on a
date with someone whom doesn’t enjoy dining, watching
movies, coffee at café etc. Not a thing at all
of what you enjoy doing? For a couples to remain
together, there has got to be something similar
between both. Similar liking, interest, characteristic
etc. The more the similarities there is between
the both of you, the better the chances of a development
of a further relationship there will be.
What are the similarities between both that you
can work on? First of all, the physical appearance
of course. Your physical appearance is the very
first thing that catches a person’s eyes, the
eyes of that special someone. Take note of the
type of dressing style he or she likes? How is
he or she normally dressed? A trendy and hip?
Casual and sporty? Smart casual? Try to dress
so, dress in the style he or she would like. Think
about it, if you were someone who is very concern
with the neatness and cleanliness of your physical
appearance, would you like someone who is always
so shabbily dressed? Naturally, a person would
tend to enjoy the company of another who generally
dresses similar to that of him or herself. Don’t
you find it so within your usual group of click?
Next would be the hobbies and interest. What sports
does he or she like? Does she play the piano?
What type of movies does he or she enjoy watching?
Does she love animals, dogs? Does he love fishing?
What flowers does she like? Hmm… knowing his or
her habits will be good too. Where does he or
she normally hang out? Does she hate crowded places?
How many cubes of sugar she like for her coffee?
Does he hate shopping? Well in simple, find out
anything possible under the sun about him or her.
Not a clue where to start? Friends would be a
good source to start with.
Ok guys, now that you know what she likes, it
is time to plan for a little nice and enjoyable
date with her. It is afterall still a guy’s job
to ask the girl out, right? Notice I used the
word “enjoyable” instead of a nice and “romantic”
date? Well, a date involves two persons. To allow
the chance for a further development of a relationship,
the chance for a next date, you have got to make
her enjoy the date, enjoy the time spent with
Take her to places that she likes, serve her food
that she enjoys eating. “Oh medium cooked for
the lady please” Present her with flowers that
she likes. She will be so surprised and impressed
by you. “Oh Rick, how do you know that I love
Pink Tulips? It’s so sweet of you” Plan activities
that she has always enjoyed. Watching a movie
that she likes at her favorite cinema? Bringing
her to her favorite musical, “Phantom of The Opera”?
Ha as usual, me and my ideas again. Well, I know
you can definitely plan for yourself a more perfect
enjoyable date. In simple, create a familiar environment
for her, a date that she will feel comfortable.
Naturally, she will enjoy herself, enjoy going
out with you, having your company, developing
a further liking for you.
Rick Valens Staff Writer for http://www.loveletterbox.com