To Love or Not to Love
Have you ever fallen
in love with two different persons at the same
time? Falling in love with two different persons
whom both have the same feeling for you too? Well,
there is actually nothing wrong with that. In
fact I would say that it is something very normal,
sometimes even falling for more than two persons
We are afterall human beings, creatures of great
emotions. It is just natural for one to develop
a liking for the opposite sex, especially when
the both are getting along very well. Sometimes,
it is just so hard for us to control our feeling
and nevertheless, it has always been human nature
to be greedy. It is always good to be able to
have the best of both worlds isnít it? But well,
things are usually just not possible. At the end
of the day, you just have to make your choice,
to decide for yourself, your one and only love
whom that person to be.
To love or not to love, it is your choice. Think
of it this way. In our path of life, we are always
faced with choices. Choices that we have to make
decisions over; decisions that will affect our
life. At circumstances, even having to make immediate
decision on the spot, decisions concerning of
life and death. Sometimes we made the right decision
and sometimes the wrong. But no matter what our
decisions might have brought so far; we accepted
them, didnít we?
That is life. There is not way the world is going
to stop moving just for you. To turn left or to
turn right, to move forward or to turn back, you
just have to make up your mind. I should believe
that you will not choose to be stuck at the cross
junction for your whole life?
Well, a game of chances and uncertainties life
has nevertheless always been. If you never play
you can never win. You have just got to make your
choice, to decide where to place your bet. You
can of course choose to give up, not to risk your
bet. You always have your choice. Life is just
so full of choices, remember? But well, will you
later regret giving up that chance when you have
The same goes for love. Between the both, you
just got to decide whom you really like more.
Well, having choices is always better than not
having any at all, right?
I should also believe that you are not going to
give up that chance of even placing your bet?
I know it is going to be hard but do just give
yourself sometime. Follow where your heart goes.
Between the both, there is definitely one whom
you will actually like more.
Ok, just picture this scenario; there are this
two musical concert, both a once in a lifetime
concert. Missing it, you will never get the chance
to see it again. You have been dying to catch
the shows all these while. However for such a
coincidence, they are been held at the same timing
on the same day. Again, I suppose you will not
just give up the chance of catching both shows
altogether? Between the two, you will definitely
choose one right?
Finally, to get to fully enjoy the show, which
you had decided upon, you just got to forget about
that disappointment from missing the other show.
But well, more often than not, once you found
yourself in the musical concert, chances are you
will be totally captured by that spectacular ambience,
enjoying yourself so much, totally forgotten about
any disappointment that you earlier had.
Now where we are discussing about love, it is
just the same. Many at times, we just canít bear
to give up on what we already have, struggling
so hard within ourselves. In the end, we might
jollywell end up with nothing at all. In life,
we gain some we lose some. Itís no use holding
on so hard to something, which you know will not
come out with anything. When you have to give
up, you have to. When you have to choose, you
just have to.
Just like choosing between the two musical concerts,
follow where your heart goes. Once you made up
your mind, everything will just seem so much clearer.
Slowly, your path of love will reveal its way
for you. Will it lead to happiness for you? Well
again, we wouldnít know. But if we never try we
will never know. At least, I should believe that
you will be much happier than to be still stuck
at the cross junction, lost for direction?
Remember, the world is not going to stop turning
just for you. So is with love. The two persons
will not just keep waiting for you. Wishy-washy?
You might just end up with nothing at all.
Happiness wonít come passing by twice, cherish
it when you have it.